Been a long while since I've posted to these forums, and I didn't really intend to either - but this has brought me out of forum retirement.
I knew Tom for a long while back in the early days when we were both in NRG (late 1999/early 2000?), really decent guy, good sense of humour and a sharp wit. For me he wasn't just some nameless person that came and went, never to be seen again - he's different.
I was aware that he'd been diagnosed with bowel cancer which at the time I have to admit I didn't think much of (thinking about the media publicised cure rates which are higher than ever), but unfortunately a cure can't come soon enough. Although very few people know this, I had a cancer scare myself a few months ago, and I don't think people can even begin to understand what it's like until you're faced with the very real prospect.
On a more positive note, I think there should be mass co-ordination within UTAssault to get people to dig into their pockets and make a worthwhile community donation to cancer research. Set a reasonable yet worthwhile target, say £1-2k. I know I'd be putting my hand into my pocket for it.
Hope Tom finds a place better than the one he left, and my condolences to his family.
// G